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Be The One!
Posted on April 26th, 2008 by illuminati.
Categories: Life.
What’s your dream in your life?
Having a million dollar house, having a beautiful wife, having a great success in your carrier, or having a happy family?
It doesn’t matter what it is, I’m sure they are all about a “happinessâ€
All people have their own dream and purpose in our life and they are attempting to reach it, but how could only be one winner in every race, how could only be several people being successful. There are many challengers and challenges for us to reach it.
How could we be the one?
We all have been actually the one, the winner of this life. If we look the process of our presence in this life when we were a sperm, we must have been realized about it. We were all a sperm from a million sperms of our father that compete with the others to fertilize the ovum. From million of competitors, there we are, we can defeat them. We are the winner that fertilizes the ovum. So before our birth, we all have been the winner f this life. But now where is that spirit, the spirit of winning. We can beat them, we can defeat our competitors, and we can grab our happiness.
The path to reach our happiness wouldn’t be actually that easy, but by having that spirit and believe that “impossible is nothing†we can always cope with those problems and we can always be the champion. Remember, we are all the champions in this life and we can always be the champion in this life, so let’s pursue our own dream.
Be the one! Good luck!
True Love
Posted on April 26th, 2008 by illuminati.
Categories: Love.
If we look in our society especially in Indonesia, there are many teenagers can easily say “I love you†to his friend they just know and say that he wants to be her boyfriend. They seem to be really understood what love means, but I don’t think it is a “true love†because the “true love†is not that easy. The meaning of love now seems to be blurred. It doesn’t mean that I’m expert in love, but I just want to know your comment about this issue: What does a true love mean? Is it possible for you to have “the first sight true love� Thank you for your participation in this issue!
Belahan Jiwa
Posted on April 17th, 2008 by illuminati.
Categories: Love.
Sudahkah Anda memiliki “belahan jiwa†di kehidupan ini?
Siapakah ia? Pasangan Anda? Saudara Anda? Sahabat sejati Anda?
Tapi apakah “belahan jiwa†itu sebenarnya?
Dalam bukunya, Journey to My Past Lives, Nathalia Sunaidi memberikan penjelasan mengenai hal tersebut. Ia mengatakan bahwa, “Belahan jiwa adalah seseorang yang membuat kita berani bermimpi menjadi orang yang lebih baikâ€.
Berdasarkan pengertian tersebutkita dapat menyimpulkan bahwa belahan jiwa adalah orang yang membuat kita nyaman berada di dekatnya, di mana kita dapat berbagi mimpi kita bersamanya, dan iapun akan mendorong kita untuk mencapai mimpi kita. Bersamanya kita menjadi lebih berani untuk menghadapi setiap masalah dalam hidup ini. Mungkin hal-hal tsb yang membuat orang berpikir bahwa belahan jiwanya pastilah kekasihnya.Pendapat tersebut tidak sepenuhnya salah, karena sebagian besar orang menemukan sosok belahan jiwa pada kekasihnya.
Pertanyaan berikut yang mungkin muncul adalah mengapa ada belahan jiwa?
Dalam konteks reinkarnasi, berarti kita telah menemukan banyak belahan jiwa kita, ratusan bahkan mungkin ribuan. Dan dikatakan pula bahwa mungkin saja “dia†telah menjadi belahan jiwa kita dalam beberapa kehidupan. Bagaimana itu bias terjadi? Apakah mungkin? Dalam buku laris terkenal, The Secret karangan Rhonda Byrne, dikatakan bahwa segala sesuatu bahkan itu orang-orang yang berada di sekitar kita ditarik oleh “pikiran†kita sendiri. Dengan kata lain kita bertemu dengan orang-orang yang memiliki kesamaan pikiran (karma) dengan kita. Semakin sering kita bertemu dan semakin kita mengembangkan kesamaan bersama maka semakin erat hubungan kita (dalam hal pikiran). Maka dari itu keberadaan seorang belahan jiwa sejati, yang telah kita temui di beberapa kehidupan, sangatlah mungkin (tak peduli apakah Anda mempercayai konsep reinkarnasi atau tidak, namun jika terdapat hal yang bermanfaat Anda dapat mempelajarinya).
Jika kita telah memiliki banyak belahan jiwa, dan terdapat kemungkinan kita dapat bertemu mereka semua di kehidupan ini, lalu bagaimana kita dapat menentukan bahwa dialah belahan jiwa yang tepat untuk kita? Saya rasa ini mungkin salah satu penyebab mengapa terjadi yang namanya perselingkuhan. Seperti kita ketahi kita pastilah masih menyisakan perasaan kita di kehidupan lampau dengan mereka. Nathalia Sunaidi memberikan solusi yang tepat mengenai hal tersebut, yaitu sebuah “komitmenâ€, komitmen untuk mengembangkan persamaan, kemurahan hati, kebaikan hati dan kebijaksanaan kedua jiwa tersebut. Karena tidak mungkin kita membangun hubungan dengan semua “mantan†belahan jiwa kita, maka dari itu tak peduli apakah belahan jiwa kita di kehidupan ini adalah belahan jiwa kita di kehidupan lalu atau tidak, itu semua bergantung pada komitmen tadi dan “No action adalah mantra mujarab untuk mengahadapi godaan selingkuhâ€.
Dan sekarang setelah Anda membaca penjelasan dari saya di atas,bersiaplah untuk mencari belahan jiwa Anda, dan percayalah pada saya bahwa Anda tidak akan menyesal dan ingatlah untuk selalu menjaga komitmen untuk membangun persamaan, kebaikan hati, kemrahan hati dan kebijaksanaan bersama-sama. Anda dapat menjadi orang yang lebih baik danbelajar untuk menjadi sepasang “belahan jiwa sejati†dalam kehidupan ini.
Soulmate
Posted on April 17th, 2008 by illuminati.
Categories: Love.
Have you had a “soulmate†in this life?
Who is it? Your spouse? Your sibling? Your best friend?
But what is “soulmate†actually?
In her book, Journey to My Past Lives, Nathalia Sunaidi give an explanation about the meaning of it. She said that, “Soulmate is a person who makes us brave to dream of becoming a better personâ€
According to that meaning we can conclude that a soulmate is a person (friend, girlfriend, etc) whom we are satisfied to be with him/her, where we can share our dream to him, and he can encourage us to pursue our dream. With your soulmate you will be more brave to face any problem in this life. That’s why in general opinion, people think that a soulmate must be your boyfriend or your girlfriend. That opinion is not entirely wrong, because many people find their soulmate in their spouse.
The next question is why there is a soulmate?
In the context of reincarnation, we have found many soulmates, hundreds, even thousands. And it is said that we can have a soulmate that we meet in our several lives and always becoming our soulmate. How can it be? Is it possible? If you have ever read the famous best seller book, The Secret by Rhonda Byrne, it is said that people around us are the people whom we attract or we want. In the other words, we will meet people that have same mind (karma) with us. And the more times we meet him/her the more connected our mind. That’s why we can have a true soulmate in our several lives (May be you don’t believe in the concept of reincarnation, but I just want to give a possible reason why there is a soulmate, and I think it’s ok if it can give a positive thing to you).
If we have many soulmates in our previous lives and there is a possibility that we can meet all of them in this life (karma/ mind connection), how can we choose she/he is my proper soulmate in this life? This is one of the reason that there is an affair. Nathalia Sunaidi gives a solution about it, she said that the most important thing is “commitmentâ€, a commitment of improving our souls together. We can not create a relationship with those soulmates, and “No action is the best way of avoiding an affairâ€.
Now, after reading all my explanation, be ready to find your soulmate, and trust me you won’t regret to find it. You can be a better person and learn to be a true & best soulmate in this life.